We already talked about why phone numbers don’t usually lead to sex when you meet women in nightclubs, but now it’s time to talk about what women expect of men that they are sexually interested in. As you’re reading this, I want you to keep in mind that I am referring to women that are already choosing or attracted to you, and not just some random girl that feels no sexual attraction towards you at all. I already mentioned a few of the instances where I had the girl and lost her, which leads me into what I’m about to talk about. Women understand that when you approach them, you want to have sex with them, so in one way or another, you need to communicate this in a way that let’s her know that you’re acknowledging this truth. I’ve been doing the nightclub pick-up thing for quite awhile now, and I have to say that every single girl I slept with wanted the rough, hard, sweaty sex. Not only that, but just by talking to girls, I’ve had quite a few tell me that they want a man that will put them in their place. They don’t mean suppress them, but they mean that they want a man with balls. When you’re tip-toeing around the obvious, this tells women that you don’t have balls. And when you lack balls, this communicates that you aren’t going to be the rough dominant guy in bed that they want you to be.

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The ultimate question that women ask themselves is “Is this guy going to be worth sleeping with?”. And if that answer is no, then they either move on, or they don’t have sex with you. Why do I say this? I have verified with several women that the reason they didn’t sleep with me was because I didn’t bother to make a move, or I started out strong, and then kind of fizzled away. It’s not that I didn’t pick up on these women wanting to have sex with me, because I did. However, I have this incredible ego that tells me that women should just throw themselves at me. And when you have conflicting evidence of times where a lot of women wanted you so badly that they did throw themselves at you because you didn’t push or mention sex, then you tend to go with the latter. One missing part of my research, was that I never checked to see what would happen if I was upfront & straightforward all the way through to the end. Either I’d start out strong and fizzle, or I’d let the woman chase me the entire time. Like I said before, I ended up bringing a lot of women home, and I didn’t sleep with half of them because of my ridiculously huge ego.

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Now that I look back at some of my older stories, I can see exactly where I should have slept with several of those women, but didn’t because I failed to come on strong. For instance, there’s a story where a girl was on me all night, and when we got home, one of my boys said “you don’t want to sleep with Omari, you want to sleep with me.”, and at that very instance, being full of myself, she stared dead at me, and I believe I walked away thinking she would chase, when I should have immediately followed up with one of my cocky, assholish remarks and slammed the gas pedal. In another instance, I think I was out with one of the Italian chicks and her friend, and they both clearly communicated that they wanted to have sex with me. I take both of them home, and they’re both on me, and what did I do? I stayed too cool, for too long, and didn’t have sex with either of those girls that night.

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I’m not saying that you have to be vulgar like I was in my last story, but as a result of my research, I've identified five distinct times when you need to slam that gas pedal and be upfront: Within the first three minutes of conversation When any guy attempts to interfere When she challenges you sexually When it’s time to leave with her And when you are in the sex location Within the first three minutes, you need to communicate that you want sex so that she realizes that you are a guy with balls. I do this either by kissing early on, making sexual statements early on, or getting very intimate with my touch very early on. This saves you from wasting time on women you will never have sex with. If she likes you, at the very worse, she’ll giggle. And if she doesn’t respond well, then trust me, she’s not attracted to you. Now if you’re dealing with a hot girl, or it’s late in the night and guys are horny for anything, you need to be straightforward not only with the girl, but with the guy as well. If a guy interferes, you need to let him know you plan on taking her home, you need to tell him to leave, and you need to let the girl know that she’s coming with you. Again, this is all about communicating that you have balls and you’re not going to let another guy take your girl.

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When she challenges you sexually, she’s testing you for consistency. For instance, when she calls you rude for talking about sex, don’t apologize. Or if she makes a sexual comment, you need to respond with a sexual comment. If you start backpedaling, she’ll realize that you aren’t the sexually confident guy that she thought you were and lose interest in you. When it’s time to leave with her, and she isn’t with more than one friend, then you just need to ask her if she’s ready to leave or tell her that it’s time to go. Unless you’re with a group of her friends, now is not the time to talk about an after party. She knows what your intentions are, so don’t try to fool her. She will respect you for being straight up, and if she likes you, it’ll make her pussy even wetter because she knows exactly what’s about to happen. And if it’s just her, leave your friends behind. And finally, if she’s alone with you, now is not the time to go soft and/or try slick talk. If she’s alone with you, then she has pretty much decided whether or not she’s going to have sex with you. Stay strong and save yourself some time by cutting out the bullshit. Some girls will want to sleep with you so badly that they won’t care how you come at them, but other girls are simply not turned on when a man goes soft, no matter how hot she thinks he is.

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